P A C I E N C I A

Patience

I think over the many years of dating and break ups, if there’s anything I learn about loving someone and being in a relationship, it’s patience.  It’s not about how sweet you can be, how much gift you give, or even how much you’re willing to do for your love one.  It’s about how patience and understand you can be when things aren’t going right, when someone does something that makes you angry, sad, or hurt.
If I think over every single arguments I’ve had in the past, and the break up.  Most of the time, if only one side could be more patient and understanding, everything could’ve been prevented.  It’s actually really easy to treat someone nicely, it’s easy to do alot of sweet things for someone, it’s easy to shower someone with love and gifts.  But it’s so hard, so hard, to be understanding and patience when things aren’t going the way you want.  It took me so many years to try to learn this, and even now I can’t say it’s easy, but I know I’m trying.
In this relationship, I lose in almost every argument I have with my girlfriend :) Not because I have no sense of principle or opinion.  It’s because I think almost every argument it’s not really important who wins, deep inside, most of us all know what’s right and wrong.  It’s just at the heat of the moment, we become stubborn, or we let our emotions take over our logic and we argue.  In the past, everytime I win and argument, after it’s all over, I know deep inside who was right and who was wrong.  If you care and love someone, try to just let little meaningless thing go, sometimes even let the big things slide… just a piece of my mind :)

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